When girls are in their teenage they would be always thinking of their Prince Charming while watching romantic movies and beautiful songs. During this age falling in love will be always full of dreams of going to candle light dinners, going on long drive, exchanging gifts and the best one is her partner would stand on his knees with ring in his hand and say “You are the world to me…..”
Wow..!! that’s so beautiful, but often she keeps on waiting for her Mr. Perfect to come and propose and by the time she makes all her dreams come true, she gets engaged to the person who is Mr. Perfect according to her Parents….!!
So all her dreams of falling in love step by step in order to eye someone, to like that person, to think about that person, and then to smile at that person, to show nakhras, to start flirting, to hold hands and go to the park, to fall in love and finally to see her partner to be the world for her then to get married to him will never become true, as arranged marriage takes a big leap.
Yes in arranged marriage you don’t get chance to “fall” in love but you would not realize when actually you “are” in love with your husband. Slowly and steadily you get habituated to your partner so much in all the small and tiny day-to-day life that you never realize that you are really in love with that person and you would never think about living your life without your lovable hubby.
When you are in love you would realize that love is not about talking to your partner for 4 hours a day on phone but it’s actually to care about that person, to care for your partner’s likes and dislikes even if you don’t happen to talk to him for even 1 hour a day, to understand what makes him happy in his daily life. Love is not about how much you say “I love you” but how much you can prove that it’s true.
Yes you may not get red rose on the Valentine’s Day or a platinum ring on the day you met each other, but when you are in love all these things does not even matter. What matters is when you are not happy your partner tries to make you happy, when you are tired your partner will do your work and your partners supports you by standing against the whole world just for you… real love can put up with your worst behavior and be exceptionally affectionate even when you are extremely irritable. They believe in you even when you stop believing in yourself. They accept you with all your flaws and love you just the way you are…
By the time goes, you realize that yes you are in love with your husband, and when he comes home after long day at office, he doesn’t compliment you, he doesn’t say anything about his problems and instead he shouts at you… you completely understand him… love him and nothing in the world can stop you loving him… not even him…